Our current headache

Lepas satu, satu perkara yang membuat kepala kami berserabut memikirkannya...
Kalau last week kami serabut memikirkan tentang transportation Abbie ke skool (glad we manage to solve it by no choice to take skool van transportation service huhuhu), pastu kelmarin hubby call baby sitter asking for new fees this month, dia kata she cannot reduce the price... since Abbie still sent to her early in the morning.
Okey..our fees to baby sitter currently is RM580, skool fees is RM285 (incl. transportation) tak termasuk lagi kalau kami sent 2nd baby RM500. She only can give us discount RM80, so we still need to pay her 500. Kalau 2nd baby kami hantar jumlahnya RM1285 sebulan. Ini tak termasuk bekalan pampers & susu formula (we afraid she will not support CD & cannot handle ebm).
So banyak sebab why daddy said , mommy need to resign after deliver 2nd baby, even after had salary increment.

Pastu recently, belakang Abbie ada bintik2 merah (nak kata gigitan semut, dah almost a week biji2 tu tak hilang) ia biji macam chicken pox tapi tak pasti (mungkin chicken pox sbb Abbie ada amik vaccin) so kami just sapukan calamile losen kat blkg tu. Kalau gigitan semut, ia just bintat & esoknya hilangkan....
Baby sitter never said a word about that... is either she not notice or never bother about his back.

Pastu last few days Abbie asyik kerdipkan mata kirinya esp bila tengok TV or Notes.
Macam rabun silau, kami ingat ada habuk dalam mata tp takde. Daddy kata Abbie rabun warna, and I said NO.... we play with colour stick, Abbie manage to segregate the stick ikut group colour.
We worried his left eyes not functioning but he can see when we do test by close 1 side of the eyes.
Bila bermain his eyes ok. Kami suspect he watch TV too much with close distance kat rumah baby sitter.
Rumah baby sitter sangat kecil even double storey, the hall size is half from ours. And she ON the TV about 24hrs a day. Thats worried us, esp daddy sampaikan malam tadi tak tidur & mengejutkan mommy at 12mn (i m not sure... talking about his plan).

Tetiba daddy plan ask to stop sending to baby sitter effective 1st febuary and he ask mommy to take unpaid leave to take care Abbie. Aiyooo yoooo
Macam ini company dia punya la.... mommy terkejut, the reason is dia tak rasa comfy to sent abbie there anymore. He said, even if we inform baby sitter not to ON TV but how we ensure she will comply?
Kalau dulu, asal kami cuti, pun daddy lebih suka sent to baby sitter, but today,,,,,daddy kalau boleh suh mommy MC ajew duduk rumah jaga Abbie.
We plan to give notice to baby sitter this month & last sent Abbie on 28Feb. March, kalau mommy belum bersalin, daddy ask mommy to take 2 weeks leave until deliver. Dalam confinement mommy tender resign letter.

Adussss... thats very clear daddy punya direction & plan.
Tadi meeting pulak, my bos pening sebab tak cukup head count if Annie go for confinement... he make a joke "annie, we may need to ask u work from home la during confinement..." hahaha
ako gelak ajew...sambil dalam hati berkata...tak tahu ke ako plan nk resign... kesiannya...
they come out temp solution just for 2 mos until annie come back huhuhu
pity them but pity me too
its very difficult to find good baby sitter yang boleh jaga anak kita ikut cara kita.
Hantar nursery too young & macam2 kes kita dengar, hantar kat rumah pulak...asyik disuruh budak tu layan TV ajew pun tak bagus adoiiiiiiii

Kalau ikutkan hati sayang mommy nak resign... tapi kalau dah safety concern take place, rasanya terbaik resign jaga anak sendiri kan.... jaga ikut our own way... hati pun senang anak ada depan mata...

At the end of the discussion last nite, daddy sempat berpesan, mommy stop shopping ya, save money since you gonna resign soon... aiyooo yooo