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Tuesday, February 26, 2013

cervix cancer

baca title pun dah timbul rasa takutkan...esp kita ni kaum wanita, huhuhu
niat hati nak buat perkongsian, tapi mommy ni kurang ilmu, kurang pulak masa hari ni nak memblogging panjang2...
just terkejut semalam hubby call his sister (my SIL), she said, my BIL punya wife yang stay kat Kajang ni, wife dia baru dapat tahu kene cervix cancer tahap 1.
Since she got that bad news, she never stop crying huhuhu T_T

Even I stay nearby them, but she prefer to share the news with my MIL, then my MIL share with my SIL, lagipun bahasa mereka sama, elok lah tu... ai pun tengah sarat ni, nak dengar cerita sedih macam ni tak berapa elok agaknya.

Patutlah last sunday, my BIL call tanya bila ai nak bersalin, mungkin she plan to do surgery during my confinement, so my MIL akan datang rumah dia to take care of her for 2weeks (maybe) at the same time visit me la . so no need to take many leave turun naik Johor-Kajang.

Luckily my SIL almost 40 and have 2 children, dah besar pun sorang darjah 6 & sorang  form 1. sepasang & she didnt plan to have more baby. Last she got pregnant pun dia gugur kan...
lepas tu dia ada 2 kali cyst kat rahim. Ingatkan dah okey.... sekali mungkin dia buat follow-up with pap smear the result she have cervix cancer tahap pertama.

My hubby said, her family history oso have few yg pass away sebab cancer (lebih kurang keturunan la ni)
kesiankan.....

Hubby siap tanya lagi, bila last mommy buat pap smear, My last pap smear is last year la, siap amik HPV jab lagi. Ni lepas bersalin pun biasanya doc akan buat pap smear kan....
So i pun mulai risau.

Pengalaman ai dari perkongsian kawan2, kalau ada cyst yang berulang kat rahim tu, memang tanda2 nak cancer, so kene keep monitor supaya tak terlambat detect. Macam kes my SIL, she plan to remove the womb.... tu yg ai cakap, nasib baik dia mmg dah tak plan utk having another baby. Cuma akan kekurangan bahagian penting seorang wanita. But its all up to u how u accept it. I ada kawan (operator kat sini) yang lebih kurang age my SIL, terkejut bila dia cakap dia dah buang rahim, lepas melahirkan anak ke2, doc detect she have cancer rahim, so cepat2 operate buang rahim, Alhamdulillah sampai sekarang dia sihat & happy. Anak sulung dah 25tahun dah bertunang pun. So its how u accept ur self.

Sama case dengan breast cancer, I have fren (clerk at my previous company), she oso dah anak 6, dah tua sikit la.... almost reach 50. Dia ada benjolan kat ketiak dia, bila jumpa doc, doc operate, then its keep coming, after few month datang balik benjolan tu... doc suspect dia nak kene breast cancer, so sebelum ia merebak, doc suggestkan dia buang breast dia, and she did it... Alhamdulillah, after that benjolan tu takde & she free from breast cancer. Sampai sekarang kakak tu sihat & bahagia. anak dah 6 & dah besar kan,...

Now, my hubby x-bos punya wife pun dah 2 kali operate utk buang cyst dalam rahim, katanya yg terbaru, baru detect and within a week cyst tu membesar 5cm! week before CNY dia buat operation buang cyst tu, lepas tu boleh pulak usus tersumbat huhuhuhu
she only have 1 son age 8yrs old. I notice selalunya org yg ada cyst dlm rahim susah nak conceive. betulkah fakta ni? saya tak pasti. tapi itu yang saya dapat dari pengalaman kawan2.
Dan biasa nya cyst yg berulang ni ada kaitan dengan cancer. ia bibit2 nak terjadinya cancer.
takutkan......

Pray my SIL akan kembali sihat & tabah menghadapi ujian tuhan.
Berat mata memandang, berat lagi bahu yang memikul.

Take care & comb your hair,
From Mommy Annie Tay with L.O.V.E

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