Cervix cancer

Semalam my MIL dtg dr Batu Pahat naik bas, hubby yang g jemput kt station bas serdang.
Besar beg yg my MIL bawa, katanya nk berkampung 2 minggu kat sini. Saya tahu tujuan nya bukan nk jaga saya dlm pantang (sebab my owm emak yang akan jaga saya nanti), she come sebab nak jaga my SIL yang akan buat operation buang rahim akibat cervix cancer tu.

Actually, last saturday my SIL dtg rumah, singgah blk dr amik anak dia blk dr tuition nk guna toilet. Tapi ai didnt ask or tanya any thing regarding her cancer (pura2 tak tahu pape la) since my BIL dh bgtau, she want to keep it secret. dont let her know we oredi knew.
Tapi ikut logik la kan, kenapa pulak my MIL nk dtg sedangkan i belum bersalin? SIL boleh buat2 tanya, its mom coming to take care Alex? Mujur ai tak faham (sebab she sembang dlm bahasa cina dgn hubby).

Pastu bila MIL dtg, katanya operationnya is either next saturday or monday next week. Lambat la lagi...
dekat Priscott Hospital. Malam tadi mereka having dinner at my house, coz MIL ai masak.
Pastu she only eat vege, dia x makan tomyam ikan tu. Then i pelik la, dengan selamba ai tanya, why didnt eat that fish? its tomyam...
she reply.... worried ada belacan... ha? tak makan belacan ke? i dont think inside this kuah ada belacan.
Then she just keep quite.
After dinner, when left only me & her, only then she told me tentang cancer dia... she said, i assume u still tak tahu, sebab ai pelik dia tak makan belacan. I pun pura2 la ckp, i donno anything, and she story la A to Z.
She said, last 2 year, memang tiap2 tahun dia buat pap smear, itu regular health checkup for woman la.
Both year takde apa2, the result was good, but this year, dia buat pap smear, tetiba dikesan sel cancer,
sebelum tu dia ada buat pembedahan utk buang cyst tp sekali ajew (bukan berulang).
So bila doc kesan sel cancer, doc amik tissue sample for her cervix for detail test & do endoscopy.
Ha result detail test tu akan keluar jumaat ni, and dr endoscopy tu yang found out dia ada wound kat dlm rahim. bleeding dah 10day, and this recent days dia mula rasa sakit. To know what stage the cancer now, is pending jumaat ni punya result. Doc syak stage 1 sebab baru tahun ni detect.
She mention, maybe she cannot visit me bila ai bersalin nanti, i said...takpe lah i faham. both of us "dalam pantang".
She oso mention she didnt tell her family side sebab.....
baru 3 bulan lepas her sister buang sebelah payu dara dia sebab ada sel cancer, and her father pass away sebab cancer & bimbang her mom worried about her. So cancer ni memang genetic.
She oso worried about her daughter, so sekarang apa yang dia buat is jaga pemakanan, dont let the body berasid, kene makan makanan yg berakali supaya body bersifat natural and eat diet yang combat cancer.

Eat oat, brown or red rice, no meat, chicken, orange colour fruits/vege adalah agent combat cancer.
So far i look at her, she look fine (tp kita tak tahu kat dlm hati) hubby tanya, did she cry when told me this, i said no. mungkin now she can accept it, since she get fully support from her husband & children.

Pray for her safety and me too.

p/s- mom out there, never feel scared to do pap smear yearly. kalau ada budget lebih, amik la jab HPV . Its not for you but its for your family too.

Take care & comb your hair,
 From Mommy Annie Tay with L.O.V.E