Refuse to go nanny house & skool

Semalam baru mommy plan nk puji anak sayang mommy ni yang telah improve dari segi bahasa dia sejak pegi skool ni. Cakap dah macam orang besar..
Kalau sebelum ni nak suruh salam, kami cakap "Amin", but lately dia sendiri cakap "shake hand" bila mommy sent him to nanny house.
Pastu bila nak panggil mommy or daddy come to him, dia akan jerit "daddy, come! come lar"
ish macam budak besar sudah...

Tapi lately Abbie jadi super manja, everything mommy, balik nak ada mommy jemput dia di rumah baby sitter, kalau tak ada dia nangis sepanjang jalan kata daddynya.
Bila balik nak mommy hug, kissed & play with him 1st before mommy able to do routine work - cook dinner for family.
Everything want mommy, he said mommy can, daddy cannot, mommy nice daddy not nice.
Dah la mommy sarat marat ni, tengah malam nak mommy jugak buat susu, mommy jugak yang sent him to toilet for shi shi... nak mommy jugak to carry him dengan perut memboyot ni.
adeiiii

Terbaru, semalam masa pickup Abbie, baby sitter cakap, dia tak mahu tukar baju ke sekolah, menangis2 tak mahu sekolah, baby sitter try to call us, but tak perasan pulak both mommy & daddy phone is switched OFF, so baby sitter tetap paksa him go to skool la.
Kami tanya why Abbie dont want go to skool? He said " want mommy, want daddy".
Bila kami tanya ada nangis tak kat skool? Dia jawap "yau..."
we ask again, why? dia jawap "wo yau mommy, wo yau daddy"

Pagi tadi lagi la drama, sebab semalam dia tak mahu ke skool, daddy suh mommy cuti, tunggu Abbie kat skool, Alamak...mommy dah langsung takde cuti, rasanya bulan 1 ni dah ada 1 hari unpaid leave. Bukan daddy punya company suka2 mommy amik cuti huhuhu
So pagi tadi, kami keluar keje lambat, kami sengaja tunggu dia bangun, bawa Abbie breakfast kat mamak makan tosei telur (best!!) tapi Abbie prefer nasi lemak yang daddy makan (makan nasi putih sajok!)
Pastu bila kami nak sent Abbie ke rumah baby sitter, dia nangis.... "pu yau auntie, pu yau skool.... yau daddy house!"
Adeiii dia tak mahu langsung ke rumah baby sitter or skool, Dia nak balik.
Even kami terpaksa amik uniform sekolah kat rumah baby sitter & pakaikan dalam kereta sebab Abbie menangis tak mahu masuk rumah auntie.
Pastu kami tipu dia yang mommy akan tunggu kat skool. so dia happy la...
Tapi bila sampai skool, sekali lagi dia menangis, "pu yau skool...yau daddy..."
huhuhuhu
Kami tanya dengan Teacher Mok (cikgu Abbie), macammana keadaan dia di sekolah semalam?
Teacher said, kat sekolah dia baik, happy aje main takde nangis..
So tadi kami tinggalkan Abbie yang sedang menangis bersama teacher mok & pergi kerja.

Dalam perjalanan, kami talk about Abbie behavier ... pastu diam... diam bukan bermakna conversation is end, but we stop talking about him but never stop thinking about him.
Daddy oso same, he look worried.
Mommy said, kalau dia tak mo sekolah, apa salahnya skip skool sekali sekala, but daddy said never practise that, nanti terbiasa.
Lagipun masalah sekarang, bukan sahaja skool yang dia tak nak, rumah baby sitter pun dia taknak.
Dia nak mommy & daddy at home with him.

Kami relized yang Abbie semakin manja, adakah sebab dia manja atau dia manja sebab nak dapat adik?
Daddy said, Abbie should learn independent, salah kami jugak, yang terlalu memanjakan dia, never let him play alone at home.

Mommy pray & always pray, Abbie will happy, safe & protect by Angel while traveling from skool to nanny house vice versa.
Be good, healthy & smart little boy.
Mommy & daddy will always love him & want the best for him.
Pray ALLAH will protect & guide him, Ameen.

p/s- Daddy baru IM mommy, he just called up Teacher Mok, asking about Abbie, katanya Abbie dah tak nangis, his playing now...happy! Great! Thank you Allah.


Take care & comb your hair, From Mommy Annie Tay with L.O.V.E